2008

Finally 2008 was over. Hindi ko masasabi na hindi maganda ang taon na ito dahil the reality is madami-dami rin namang magagandang bagay ang nangyari sakin this year. Naging malapit ako sa ilang tao na never ko naisip na magiging ka close ko, I met new friends, I survived for a year now of being independent and fell in-love in a short span of time.. the ending may not be a typical love story which is a happy ending pero at least natuto ako to become more mature in handling a relationship..

To make it easy, I will enumerate everything..

• I survived for a year now of being independent and still enjoying a kind of life that is fun yet challenging. totoo nga yung sinabi ng parents ko na mahirap mabuhay lalo ng kung mag isa ka. So last December, I finally decided to move in to a new house with my 2 officemates (Mon and Maebelle)


• I became closer to someone na never ko naisip na magiging ka close ko even in my dreams. first impression may not be right all the time kumbaga. We never planned, it just happened. parang naging brother na ang turing ko sa kanya. We've been through several trials and I'm glad we surpassed everthing. love you bes! :)


• I met new set of friends. Hindi naman ako naging close sa lahat. Medyo madami sila to enumerate. Sa ngayun pa ilan-ilan nalang yung consistent na nakakasama ko.. JP, Bali, Francis and JM became closer to my heart this year. Minsan meron tampuhan and misunderstandings pero napag-uusapan naman which is good.

• Naging maganda ang social life ko this year :) hindi ako naging kill joy at old maid.


• My girl friends got married finally. 2 my 3 closest friends settled down this year- Grace and Neren. Neren will give birth soon.. Twins yung baby so sobrang excited ako and yung super close friend ko na crush ko nung highschool si Grace kinasal last December and I was part of the entourage. I was just disappointed because trixy and I arrived late :( bumawi nalang ako sa reception kc nag blow ako ng bubbles kahit yung iba ayaw.. effort yun (I hope Grace read this so she would know)


• Still Happy and had pretty good performance at work mejo nag drop nga last nung last 3 quarter for some reasons pero the good thing is I'm catching up now.


• I met new guys and one them became my partner for almost 2 months. I tried to make things work for both of us pero hindi parin nag materialize. I rather not say why we parted ways.. secret nalang yun! ;)


• And most of all, my family accepted the fact that I'm on my own now and I can make my own decisions. Supportive na sila compared last 2007

2009 just started and I'm very excited sa lahat ng bagay na pwedeng mangayari this year.. Yahhooooo!!! :)

Friendship or Love?

Why do most people seem to fall for a friend at one point or another? It is we because we see a great person..

Someone who knows us inside and out, someone who has been there when were down, someone who knows what makes us laugh and what makes us cry, someone who cares..

We see the perfect someone in a friend but what we don't see is that as soon as we take the next step, they will turn into someone we never knew at all..

I got this message from a new friend of mine. Something to think about...

I always believe that friendship is the foundation of a strong relationship.. but what what if you fall for a friend na hindi mo naman ginusto.. na develop lang dahil nanjan kayo for one another..

Most of the time mahuhulog ka sa patibong if you can relate to his situation.. lalo na kapag nag sasabi sya ng problema sayo..

Will you sacrifice your friendship in exchange of love.. What if you only feel one way.. and hindi ka nya gusto? are you still gonna try?

Madami pwedeng mangyari if you fall for your friend..

It happened to me, months ago. I chose to be his friend and we're still together..